For this Tunes Tuesday, I am going to highlight a song that makes me think of summer and love. The song I chose this week is called Side of the Road by Lucinda Williams.
Lucinda Williams has so many great song lyrics to choose from, but this particular song has always resonated with me. The song describes a feeling that is hard to put into words, but like the brilliant singer-songwriter she is, she nails it.
It also makes me think of a quote that I have always loved by Khalil Gibran, which is often read at weddings:
Let there be spaces in your togetherness, And let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. Fill each other’s cup but drink not from one cup. Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf. Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone, Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music. Give your hearts, but not into each other’s keeping. For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts. And stand together, yet not too near together: For the pillars of the temple stand apart, And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other’s shadow.
This is the kind of romance that I want – the kind that respects the beauty of each individual and which becomes even more beautiful when the two are combined.
So, without further ado, I give you Lucinda Williams, Side of the Road.
Side of the Road
Lucinda Williams
You wait in the car on the side of the road
Lemme go and stand awhile, I wanna know you’re there but I wanna be alone
If only for a minute or two
I wanna see what it feels like to be without you
I wanna know the touch of my own skin
Against the sun, against the wind
I walked out in a field, the grass was high, it brushed against my legs
I just stood and looked out at the open space and a farmhouse out a ways
And I wondered about the people who lived in it
And I wondered if they were happy and content
Were there children and a man and a wife?
Did she love him and take her hair down at night?
If I stray away too far from you, don’t go and try to find me
It doesn’t mean I don’t love you, it doesn’t mean I won’t come back and
stay beside you
It only means I need a little time
To follow that unbroken line
To a place where the wild things grow
To a place where I used to always go
La la la, la la la, la la la, la la la
La la la la, la la la, la la la, la la la
If only for a minute or two
I wanna see what it feels like to be without you
I wanna know the touch of my own skin
Against the sun, against the wind
What do you think? What song tells your kind of love story?
I would love to hear your thoughts. Thank you for reading!
Beautiful song. And strong sentiments. Many thanks for another happy Tuesday!
Thank you!!! Glad you liked it! 🙂
both the quote and song speak to me about how I think of love — not as a cloying thing, but a thing that gives you enough security to be alone too
Me too! That is the only kind of romance that will work for me, I know that for sure. Thanks so much for the comment!
When I was contemplating the possibility of welcoming a partner into my life, it was very clear to me that I was already happy, already fulfilled, and that I was longing for someone to share my journey, to enrich my experience of life with his and who would be enriched by what I had to offer. When my sweet husband showed up, he was, and is, the answer to my prayers!
What a beautiful sentiment. Sounds like you are the answer to his prayers as well and I am sure he knows it. 🙂 Thank you so much for reading and for your comment!
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Oooh, good one!! Thanks so much for the comment!! Here are the lyrics for those who don’t know this one:
I want somebody to share
Share the rest of my life
Share my innermost thoughts
Know my intimate details
Someone who’ll stand by my side
And give me support
And in return
She’ll get my support
She will listen to me
When I want to speak
About the world we live in
And life in general
Though my views may be wrong
They may even be perverted
She’ll hear me out
And won’t easily be converted
To my way of thinking
In fact she’ll often disagree
But at the end of it all
She will understand me
Aaaahhhhh….
I want somebody who cares
For me passionately
With every thought
With every breath
Someone who’ll help me see things
In a different light
All the things I detest
I will almost like
I don’t want to be tied
To anyone’s strings
I’m carefully trying to steer clear of
Those things
But when I’m asleep
I want somebody
Who will put their arms around me
And kiss me tenderly
Though things like this
Make me sick
In a case like this
I’ll get away with it
And in a place like this
I’ll get away with it
Aaaahhhhh….
Thanks for introducing me to this, I’ve never listened to Lucinda Williams before. I’m going to have to listen to more of her songs. I too enjoy that type of relational freedom that she expresses so beautifully as well as the Gibran quote!
Thank you for your comment! Glad I could introduce you to this amazing lady!! Thanks again for reading and taking time to leave a comment!
Lucinda rocks – and this song just sends me…
🙂 Me too! Glad you liked it!! Thanks so much for reading, my friend!
That my dear, is my pleasure!
I love Lucinda…you’ve reminded me to put her at the top of my playlist, its’ been awhile. Love this song…
Me too! Glad to provide a reminder. She just never goes out of style! 🙂 Thanks so much for the comment!
Love the Khalil Gabran quote…he operates on a higher plan. And love the photo. Great post.
Doesn’t he??? I completely agree. Thanks so much for taking time to read and leave a comment!
I like the words and the tune. Never heard it before, but is nice and relaxing.
Thanks so much for reading and taking time to comment!
You did it. Your first curve ball for me as I am not familiar with this one. I do like the lyrics and the similar sentiment of the Gibran quote. We do need that space or we would stifle each other. Great choice and I have a new song to download.
🙂 I thought this one might be a curveball for you! 🙂 Linda Williams is great. Once in a while she is a little too twangy for me, but her song-writing is brilliant! Thanks so much for the comment – expect more curveballs to come! 😉
Thanks so much for the link to Lucinda’s music! I am now a fan.
Having said that, I have always been a fan of the Gibran quote/sentiments you shared…thanks.
To put it simply…you are so very good at putting out interesting stuff.
Thanks, Sheila!!! 🙂 It was great to see you last night. Thanks so much for the advice, support and encouragement. Let’s do it again soon!
Dear Jenni,
I love the way this song makes it ok to wonder….to need to be by yourself…and to still love the one you are with.
😉
Gorgeous.
♥♥♥
Love, Lis
xoxoxox
🙂 Me too! That is such an important part of a relationship for me. Really, the only way I can do it! 😉 Thanks so much for the comment, Lis!
Thanks for the note back. If she is too twangy on occasion, we should not even begin to talk about Bob Dylan’s inability to sing well. But, that never stopped him from being a poet laureate. I need to check her out.
Precisely. She is like Bob Dylan. And if you can endure a bit of twang, this woman is pure wisdom incarnate! 🙂 So glad you are enjoying the Tunes Tuesday. I am having a blast with it too!